Check out BART IDIOT HALL OF FAME ON
see the guy in the background? I love him. He was in the priority seating area when we got on an empty train at the beginning of the line very early in the morning. He perceived that the girl furthest from me *might* be pregnant when they boarded a still-largely-empty train a few stops later (but you never ever ask if a woman is pregnant, you know the drill), and sprang up from his seat to vacate it for her. What a gent.
Then they sat down and started… this business. They were honestly, honestly shocked when I looked right at them and said “can you ladies turn the volume off? Thanks.”